I would like to say to Pastor Wright that he is wrong. There are wonderful white people in this country. And my life is a perfect example of their kindness and altruism.
During a big part my youth (although black) I was practically raised by an Italian American family. My mentor (Ike Grassano) was one of the kindest, most incredible men I have ever known. I have yet to meet any man (including my biological father) who made such an impact on my life.
Mr. Grassano and my mother taught me everything good that I know. Mr.Grassano instilled in me a strong work ethic and an insatiable desire to be the best in whatever I do. He taught me to be tough and to never give up. He taught me how to dress like a gentleman. He instilled in my mind the importance of honesty and loyalty to my family and friends. And in my home town I may be the only black man that speaks Italian! I also love soccer, classical music, and Italian food.
My point is; I may be black, but my thinking and way of life was molded by a wonderful European culture—a culture that I love and embrace. My life has been interesting beyond words. How different things might have been, had I isolated myself to the confines of one culture. How boring! I am the product of both my White and Black American families. And I love them both equally.
Last night my Mom and I laughed as we discussed Pastor Wright’s statements and the possible response by Senator Obama. We laughed because for fifty-two years, I have lived the change that so many Americans are waiting for. I stepped over the racial dividing line decades ago and I have never looked back. Senator Obama is correct. This country is divided. We do need change. And not just in the political arena.
I would hope that Senator Obama distance himself from the rhetoric and highly racial comments made by his friend, Pastor Jeremiah Wright. And perhaps Pastor Wright is a symbol of a big segment of our society—a segment that is still highly divided along racial lines. As for Jeremiah Hodge, I will continue to live my life loving both my white and black brethren. And I would urge Senator Obama to do the same if he wants to become our first Black President. Not because it is politically correct, but because it is the right thing to do. He must choose. There is no middle ground on this issue. I made my choice. And I hope that one day my life will be an example of the wisdom of loving all people.
