Yes, I Smoke. What’s It to You?

By: Polly Parker (View Profile)

So why is smoking more evil than anything else? And why is publicly and unreservedly demonizing smokers more socially acceptable?

I’m not stupid—I know smoking can and might kill you—but so can a lot of other things. Sure, some people find smoking disgusting, but have you ever been around an alcoholic who reeks of liquor in the morning and won’t take a shower? Have you ever seen a meth addict scratch at their skin until it becomes raw? Have you seen the teeth and skin of people battling eating disorders? Other vices can be every bit as disgusting as smoking, and other vices can cause death too.

I am shocked at some of the things I hear, from people I know and like, everyday. People don’t think twice about expressing their (often severe) opinion of smoking. I know that many people who are so opposed to smoking have had someone they love die from it. But that doesn’t make the public anti-smoking tirade OK. I know people who have died from problems related to obesity and diabetes, but I don’t go off on everyone in McDonald’s. I’ve seen people I love in the hospital, yellow—their stomachs swollen from alcohol. But, I don’t get nasty with everyone at the bar on Friday night.

I don’t know why people think it is OK to talk about smokers like they are the biggest and most evil fools on the planet. It isn’t fair. We all make our personal choices. I may smoke, but I exercise, eat healthy and organic, recycle, help old ladies off the bus, work with children, and do many other positive things. Even if you know someone who has died from smoking, it is not a license to attack every other smoker you meet. People are all entitled to live their own lives and make their own choices. If I am not smoking in your face or bothering you at all, then you have no right to treat me like I am the lowest form of humanity. There are disrespectful and respectful smokers, just like with everything else.

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posted: 08.26.2007
Mister Weatherbee
"When you smoke you're killing the rest of us" is such a sweeping, unfair generalization. Myself, and many, many smokers like me, go out of our way to keep second hand smoke away from other people. I never smoke in confined spaces, I smoke outdoors, in seclusion, away from others. Perhaps not all smokers are as considerate, but should smokers like myself be punished for someone else's wrongdoing? Before you judge, look around objectively.
posted: 08.18.2007
Smokey's Mom
I am a very considerate smoker, so "here here" to your story. I don't smoke around people who don't smoke. I'm usually the one standing WAY out there so as to not offend the non-smokers, children, sick, the elderly, etc. Yes, my husband and grown children would prefer I quit smoking, but I'm addicted, and, I enjoy it. I've tried every quit-smoking aid on the market only to light up again when the program is over or I run out of the medicine. I'm not a criminal because I smoke, and, yes, I know ALL about the health hazards of smoking. But leave me alone and stop taxing my cigarettes! Tax the furs, the yachts, the jewels, the multi-million dollar mansions, the expensive autos, then start taxing the diet divas who are making a fortune off of anybody a pound over their ideal weight, the infomercials, politicians, wealthy store chain owners and leave us smokers alone for awhile. I will admit, however, that if there was a true, proven, quit smoking program, I might just quit.
posted: 08.16.2007
April George
Yeah, but here's the deal...and I think I may have a say on this one...when you smoke you're killing all the rest of us. And that should be a decision for me to make.
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