Yes, I Smoke. What's It to You?

By: Polly Parker (View Profile)

 

Smoking is addictive, and I would like to see some real help and support for people who want to quit. We give support to every other vice and don’t demonize the people along the way. People use alcohol as an excuse for everything these days—think of all the celebrities who screw up, enter rehab, emerge clean, and America cheers. Why not have that support for smokers who want to quit? If we can send people to the moon and map the humane genome, surely we can find a way to help people quit smoking.

 

In the meantime, all the judgmental non-smokers need to remember something—some people don’t want to quit. I don’t. I very much enjoy my cigarette at the end of the day. I have quit when I wanted to, and I have started again when I wanted to. I like to smoke, and I have every right to smoke and to not be treated like I am the devil for doing so.

 

You need to remember something else too—you don’t know what people do when they are not around you. It’s possible that the guy you met at the bar last night smokes, and it’s possible that you have coworkers that smoke. It’s possible you like a movie written by a smoker and it’s possible that your kid might smoke. With everything else, people pause before they speak, for fear of offending someone, but people really let loose about their anti-smoking beliefs, and I am here to say that it’s not OK to behave that way.

 

Smokers are not evil, and even if you hate the sin, you should never hate the sinner. Next time, think before you speak—smokers have every right to make their own choices, just like you do. There are millions of kind, talented, giving, and productive citizens who smoke—what makes you think you are in a position to judge anyone else?

 

 

 

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posted: 08.26.2007
Mister Weatherbee
"When you smoke you're killing the rest of us" is such a sweeping, unfair generalization. Myself, and many, many smokers like me, go out of our way to keep second hand smoke away from other people. I never smoke in confined spaces, I smoke outdoors, in seclusion, away from others. Perhaps not all smokers are as considerate, but should smokers like myself be punished for someone else's wrongdoing? Before you judge, look around objectively.
posted: 08.18.2007
Smokey's Mom
I am a very considerate smoker, so "here here" to your story. I don't smoke around people who don't smoke. I'm usually the one standing WAY out there so as to not offend the non-smokers, children, sick, the elderly, etc. Yes, my husband and grown children would prefer I quit smoking, but I'm addicted, and, I enjoy it. I've tried every quit-smoking aid on the market only to light up again when the program is over or I run out of the medicine. I'm not a criminal because I smoke, and, yes, I know ALL about the health hazards of smoking. But leave me alone and stop taxing my cigarettes! Tax the furs, the yachts, the jewels, the multi-million dollar mansions, the expensive autos, then start taxing the diet divas who are making a fortune off of anybody a pound over their ideal weight, the infomercials, politicians, wealthy store chain owners and leave us smokers alone for awhile. I will admit, however, that if there was a true, proven, quit smoking program, I might just quit.
posted: 08.16.2007
April George
Yeah, but here's the deal...and I think I may have a say on this one...when you smoke you're killing all the rest of us. And that should be a decision for me to make.
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