Its seems as though everyone is on the self help bandwagon these days, so much so that it’s almost cliché to provide advice on living. When did we start needing so much instruction on how to maneuver our lives anyway?
Although I don’t assume to be an authority on how you should live your best life, I’d like to share with you my thoughts on how I live as drama-free as possible. By drama, I mean anything that seems over inflated, unnecessary, or a general pain in the ass. This can include jobs, relationships, things we own, or our own behaviors and preferences.
Drama causes anxiety, expends precious energy, and fogs your mind with thoughts that keep you from living peacefully. Ergo, the less drama you endure, the clearer you will be able to see your own reality. Some people like to create drama, and perhaps that’s because they don’t want to face their own realities … I’m more of the thought that we should face our issues, deal, and move on.
Enjoy …
1. Date someone who isn’t prone to mood swings—this is such a draining behavior to live with, and if you do date someone like this, don’t marry them! You will walk on egg shells around them for the rest of your life.
2. Pick your friends carefully. Better to have a few quality friends than many acquaintances. Your friends should be supportive, non-competitive (with you), honest, and reliable. They should also emulate the direction you want to grow towards—healthy, smart, happy, genuine, and successful—whatever that means to you. Bad habits in friends you spend a lot of time with are contagious.
3. If you are going to have kids, make that a conscious choice, not an assumption that it’s a part of life, or an accident. Don’t assume having kids will ensure you will be taken care of in old age. Your kids may not like you (or you them), they might not want or be able to take care of you, or you could outlive them. Consider the alternatives to procreation. The earth will thank you.
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