Losing What I Never Had

By: Tropicgal (View Profile)

Not that it evens the score or makes the loss of my most recent non-relationship any easier to deal with. But looking at both sides of the dilemma of “Why doesn’t he/she like me the way I like him/her?” I can see that I don’t need to hurt. I am smart, attractive, funny, kind … and I am right for that one special someone. We all are.

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posted: 08.20.2008
beachgirl
How true this is - why can't I fall for this man who is falling for me? It just means we're not right for each other, that's it - it's no one's fault. And yes, we all are right for that one special person.
posted: 03.05.2008
Vita King
Hello,DDHalpern,your story was right,the dating world is so,spaceie.Your are crazy about he but he gets on your nerve because of this.He loves you but you get on his nerve because he said wear your hair in a pony tail i like it that way and you went and did a thing called,i think i will change my hair today woman what were you thinking.Then when he says to you,well you are not the same,you ask what happen he will say you are just not the same.Hes been upset with you for two weeks about you taking your hair out of the ponytail.And getting his or her number out of your head,please later in the middle of the night you will be kicking yourself,what in the hell was I thinking we could be mmaking love right now we are two playmates in the bedroom.Sometimes I just don't have a brain,thats what you say to yourself.And holding him yes yes yes and him holding you and you want ask him questions like how do you really fill fill about me.Keep writting you are right there is someone for everyone.
posted: 02.16.2008
Jenna Sintarek
i know this feeling very well over the same guy. ugh
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