You’ve made it clear you want to “get physical” (wait, did you go as Olivia Newton-John? Sorry, I digress). So he knows you want to hear his body talk and he won’t even tell you what’s up, or what’s down, with him. (Sorry the puns are just too easy.)
Great guy or not, is that what you want? There are plenty of “great guys”—just ask their buddies—elsewhere who will have much less trouble giving you what you want, what anyone should want: to feel they are desired by their mate.
You don’t mention your age but I’m assuming you’re quite a few years younger. I understand you may like many aspects of a mature man: he’s respectful, you have good conversation, and he probably has a little extra cash. I actually look forward to becoming a mature man someday myself. But if disinterest in sex is a component of being mature, I’ll borrow another Heart title, I “Never” want to be that mature. Tell this geezer to fly to the early bird special.
In matters like this, go with what Heart tells you.
Call me already!
What’s up with text messaging? Why don’t people just call?—MF
The gay woman’s perspective: Jody Fischer
Don’t take it personally, text messaging is a generational thing. Friends in their twenties and younger text message me, while my friends in their thirties and above can’t be bothered. Just because technology keeps changing, doesn’t mean we change along with it.
The gay man’s perspective: Darren Maddox
If I can name one mode of communication I could certainly live without, this would be it! Seriously, I have to agree with you, MF. People who carry on entire conversations by texting back and forth rather than picking up the phone for five minutes CHAP MY ASS! If you’re running late and you just want to alert me that’s fine. But if you want to turn into some digital Casanova with me it’s not going to work. Texts may be cute at first when they’re flirty. But when you get one you don’t know how to “read”—it just becomes an annoying internal conflict when you question the tone in which it was delivered.
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