Back Door Girl: The 4-Way

Okay, is he really pushing it or just asking? If he is pushy about it, dump his ass and find a real man who cares about your feelings! if on the other hand, he only askes in case you might be willing to try it...why are you reluctant? Perhaps you could try just a little finger action instead and see how it feels. A great compromise!!! I for the life of me do not know y guys r so into this, however, am willing to ONCE in w WHILE for a kick, cuz it makes em so damn happy! BUT they have to use great care and lots of lube ;) Relaxing is the key most important thing for you to remember in this act!!!!!!!!!!! Never knwo, you might actually like it, then again you might not either! Might be worth a shot in case you surprise yourself and do enjoy ;) Best of luck either way you deside. AND it has to be your disision. NOT his!

Wow. Is this sex advice - or a jury? To the OP: Grow up about this. If you don't want to do this and you aren't prepared to add this to the list of "thinks you'll do" then tell him you won't and be clear about your limits. He deserves to know where you stand on this issue, especially as it seems important to him. It is okay for him to want anal sex and - yes - it's okay for him to dump you if you won't. It's perfectly okay for you to say "no" and to dump him if he continues to be an ass about it, too. To the Boyfriend of the OP: Grow up. If you can't entice your lover into anal sex with good sales literature (there are lot of good books on this subject) and a bottle of Platinum Wet - then accept the consequences. Quit it with the guilt games and overt pressure. Accept her answer and deal with it. Decide if it's important to you. If it is - end the relationship.

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I agree with Darren... what's good for the goose is good for the gander.

You know...sometimes anal works with one guy, but not another (read: girth and lube). If your partner gets too attached to doing any one sexual thing, tell him he might just miss out on another. And if he still presses, then I say go with the gay man's perspective and watch his head turn like a dog who hears those tones that we can't.