Once she’s not your doctor, you can treat this like any other asking out scenario. There are a few pitfalls though. How do you know she is single and how do you know she dates women? I’ve been to doctors where it’s common knowledge in the local queer community what her sexual orientation is. If that’s the case, then she has probably been in relationship with someone, who knows someone, who I know. And sometimes, I just get a vibe about it. What are you basing your knowledge on? Just how much “probing” have you done about this woman?
Either way, you’re a ballsy one to dive on in and check it out.
Read Part Two of July’s 4-Way column.
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