The straight woman’s perspective: Rebecca Brown
It used to be that who you voted for and how much money you made were taboo topics. Look how far we’ve come on what’s acceptable to discuss—we’ve made it all the way to licking ass. What a crazy world we live in.
Speaking of crazy, I don’t think you’re crazy for considering it. It could be a fun new way to have some fun with your boyfriend. As long as he’s not pressuring you and as long as it’s your decision, why not? Clearly, you’re curious, since you’ve mentioned it to your girlfriends and bothered to ask the 4-Way. The only way to scratch that curious itch is to try it. But now I’m curious: have you thought about whether you’ll be the licker or the lickee? Maybe you should start by being the lickee. Your boyfriend obviously has some experience here, so this will help you get a sense of technique—in case you decide that you want to be the licker later.
At the risk of stating the obvious, maybe you’d be freaked out less if you put some plans in place to address the two things that seem to be the main concern when it comes to rimming: cleanliness and STDs. For your first time, try it right after taking a very thorough shower. And plan ahead. In other words, don’t have Mexican food or an excessive amount of cheese or dairy for a few days before your big anal debut.
As for STDs, I did a little research and found that you can get a whole bunch of nasty stuff from unsafe rimming: hepatitis of every variety, intestinal parasites, chlamydia, HPV, gonorrhea, herpes, and even urinary tract infections. So DO use protection, MR. The recommendation seems to be a dental dam (although that might make for an awkward next cleaning if you call your dentist to get this) or even plastic wrap in some cases. But beware the kind with the tiny holes for microwaving. Who knew? Google around until you find an option you’re comfortable with.
