Since you’re open to it, I say go for it. What’s the worst thing that can happen? Never mind. Don’t answer that.
The gay man’s perspective: Darren Maddox
Let me start by answering your question with a question: does he want to try rimming you or having you rim him? Either way, I’ll tackle the recommendation as well as the warning components of your question.
Concerning the recommendation, many people feel this is the most private and most sensitive part of anyone’s body—male or female—and offers a greater sensation than any other. If he’s willing to try rimming you and he knows the risks, realize that body exploration is not a bad thing. If he wants you to try rimming him, do it if and when you’re comfortable with it.
Now for the warning label: while rimming is not linked to the transmission of HIV, viral hepatitis can easily be transmitted this way. Make sure this has been ruled out before you do it. Some people use a clear plastic food wrap for protection during rimming, or a cut-out thumb of a rubber glove slathered in some kind of lubricant to serve as a “tongue” condom if they want to avoid contact. Also, I’m sure you can understand that neither of you should attempt this directly following a heavy meal or a twelve mile jog .
Bottom line is this, only you know your body and only you know your limits.
The gay woman’s perspective: Jody Fischer
I hate eggplant, but so many of my friends love it! I’m considering trying it, but I don’t know, what do you think?
My point here is that only you know what’s right for you. Ask as many people as you want, but ultimately, it comes down to your “tastes.”
That being said, here’s my eggplant story. Even though my gut told me that eggplant is gross, one day I decided to take a chance and check it out. I sure as heck didn’t like it just plain and by itself. So I tried fried eggplant and also baked eggplant. Turns out, even when it’s prepared differently and disguised under other yummy sauces, I still didn’t like it. Hmmmm.
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