Eggplant aside, your hesitancy is understandable. And whether it’s your gut or society talking, there are huge taboos associated with that part of the body. So cut yourself a break here. If you decide to try it, MR, do it in combination with other things. Read up about it first, and be very clear with your partner about what you need to feel comfortable and what to say if you don’t want to continue.
Things I wish someone had told me about eggplant before I tried it: you can actually taste the seeds, it’s very squishy, and the skin is kind of bitter. Yet I must say, every couple of years, I revisit the idea of eggplant. You never know when your tastes may change.
Read Part Three of December’s 4-Way column.
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