You don’t want someone who’s going to accept you letting yourself slide and you don’t want someone who can’t be honest with you that he’s losing some attraction. If physical beauty were that high on his list and the only thing he cared about, he’d be gone by now so cut him some slack.
I know you’ve got a full schedule, but you can make getting in shape a priority. Why don’t you two go to the gym together? Ask him to go with you if you’d like since you’re already busy. This will give you some time together and it will help him show his support.
You may not be able to maintain a hot body forever but you should always strive to be as healthy as you can be. You seem to want to lose weight and you seem to know that you should. Go for it.
Read Part Two of the January 4-Way.
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