How many of you have realized that you are not that lovable if someone doesn’t know you? I realized that my-damn-self. One day, my friend was talking about the old days and I was like “Yeah, you used to hate me in third grade,” and her first response was “Because I didn’t take the time out to get to know you. You’re the type of person that someone has to take time out to hang with and get to know. That’s when they realize you’re cool, that’s when they fall in love with every single detail about you.”
At first, I had to admit I was a little insulted. That is, until I took the time out the process that in my head. It makes so much sense now to me. I’m a person that can be easily judged. That is until the person finds out that their idea of me was completely incorrect. I’m not a bitch; I just look mean. I’m not an asshole; I’m actually very nice. I’m not judgmental; I just like to observe things people do. I’m not a pushover; I have no hesitation to kick someone’s ass. I love to joke around. I am a people person. I can only be me, and that’s all I intend to be! So all of those who thinks they’re not lovable. It’s a lie. You are. People just aren’t taking the time out to get to know you and understand you. That’s their loss! Not yours! Love yourself!
