What about when you REALLY like someone?

You guys aren't married, don't take it so seriously. Don't surround your life around him. Have fun by yourself and with your own friends. If you act too needy it will push him away. Be your own woman.

I agree w/ Beat. He obviously wants a different type of relationship than you do. If he is also 22 that is understandable. Most guys aren't ready for long-term, seriousness. Ever thought of dating up? I'm 23 and I just met a 27 year old guy (been dating 6 months now) & he's at the same mental level and maturity that I am at now so we match up perfectly. He's ready for what I want. Think about it! You obviously deserve better!

Sorry to bust your bubble, but Maryanne is right. From a guys perspective, he's having a great time with you, enjoys your company, and the sex is great. However, he is not looking for a long term relationship just yet. He sees you as a friend (a fuck buddy) someone to spend great times with and get physical. If you're in a place right now that you are not looking for a long term relationship [god your only 22 :)] then it would be fine to stay with him. However, do not call him until he contacts you. Then if you have time, and only if you have time, see him. Remember friendships, even these types, often develop into something more than just what they are.

Okay, You sound like me.. I went throught he same thing, twice. I had a great guy in my life for over 6 years. He professed his love for me around the 3 year. He had loved me since the first time he saw me, atleast that is what he said. We grew closer and closer then we went to a wedding together and took the next step. It was fantastic. I was so very happy and so was he. We were together all the time. What I have not mentioned is he is a workaholic and an alcholic. Not a good combination. Things were good then just fell apart. I really don't know what happend. This went on for awhile and then we just weren't anymore.. I really loved him and held on. We tried again and the same thing happend.. we are not together and we are not really friends anymore either. I think about him and miss him but to be honest I have realized he is not good enough for me. I am an amazing woman and deserve a man that is truely into me and can always be with me even when we are not together. Don't tell me we are going to remain friends then NOT. That is not fair to his son that loved me and my boys and my boys that really cared about him. I think you need to let it go and be true to yourself adn find a man that loves you ALL the time not just when he is with you. That is not a commitment. That is only there when he wants to be. You need a man all the time. You will find him.. Keep me posted on what happens.

I'm sorry to say it, but it sounds like he's not nearly as into you as you are into him. He seems content to be lazy about it, let you do all the work, and have a good time with you when he's so inclined...but that's it. Cut him loose...but you can feel free to tell him it's because you're tired of doing all the work. You'll either be dodging a bullet but getting out before you get in too deep, or you'll motivate him to do a little work and really EARN your company.