Hello. Well this is all new to me. I was online and came across this site! So I thought I would give it a try. I am worried about my daughter and granddaughter. It all started when she met a guy about nine months ago. They started seeing each other rather quickly and before I knew it he moved right in with her!! I met him a few weeks later and I got bad vibes from him. My daughter and I were very close and I seen my granddaughter often. And she would stay over with me on weekends. She’s nana’s girl. She just turned seven in December. My daughter is twenty-nine.
Well since she has been with that guy everything has changed, I seen a change in my girls shortly after he moved in with her. He is very controlling, my daughter never let any man tell her what to do. I know my daughter and she is not her self anymore!! She keeps my granddaughter from me for weeks and hardly ever calls me!! We were very close. Not anymore! Her and I have had some words, I told her what I think of her new boyfriend! I see a lot of red flags and I try to tell her but she just doesn’t listen! Which who wants to listen to their mother no matter what age!!! She did leave him for six days and stayed with me and of course he was calling her several times a day!! Crying the blues to her. It was the first week of December. I tried to talk to her but I get very upset that she doesn’t see what he is doing to them.
I worry about my girls everyday and night! Sometimes I am up all hours of the night! My granddaughter told me a lot of things he said to her, called her names. I have pages of things she told me!! I told my daughter and she tells me oh he’s just kidding. I just don’t understand her anymore!!! I pray to god to keep them safe … and have her come to her right mind!! Love is blind!! Then this past Saturday at my grandson’s birthday party my son’s girlfriend said oh did you see her ring?? I said what? She’s engaged!!!! I didn’t say anything to her about her being engaged, my daughter knows how I feel about him!!!! Now what do I do??? Worried mother***