I never really imagined my sex life being so good. I began taking courses in sensuality almost nine years ago, learning about the anatomy of the clitoris and about female orgasm, and learning about the things that I like most when I am masturbating. This has so much affected the way that I can pleasure my own body through more and more communication with my partner. What I have learned about my body has given me so many great things to talk to my partner about and tell him what I like. This has made our sex life together so much more fun.
We started using this technique that the Welcomed Consensus teaches called, “DOing.” This stands for Deliberate Orgasm. We make a date and then one or both of us sets up the bedroom and we both put our attention on one person’s body to achieve the most amount of pleasure.
It is so much fun, when we decide that he is going to “DO” me, I lay on the bed and he begins by looking at my body, my genitals, and telling me what he likes. Then he starts to stroke, using his index finger to directly stroke the glands of my clit. We have been having such a good time using this technique.
There’s more! He and I have both gotten to know so much about each other’s bodies and we are having more fun than ever before.
