I have been at this crossroad for about two years now.
I lived for almost six years with Mr. Right Guy (who has his defaults like everyone else), but I’ve recently met Mr. Adventurous Guy. The second one is always changing dates, a bit macho, very determined, and spoiled by mom and sisters. He thinks he’s the center universe for women, and normally he his. He’s not handsome but he’s very hot and very selfish.
I feel like living two different lives. I want to keep Mr. Right Guy but won’t mind to try the “legend” Mr. Macho Guy. Nothing has happened with Mr. Macho Guy yet, because I know deep down inside me that I’ll be just another one for him, and also because he knows Mr. Right Guy and there’s “a sort of code of honor between men” (his words to tease me). Meanwhile he tried several times to insinuate himself with no success, even if it’s hard for me to control my feelings.
I know Mr. Right Guy loves me and trusts me and I never been unfaithful to him, and don’t want to hurt him. Sometimes I really don’t know what to do because I miss the humor and teasing of Mr. Macho. What’s you’re advice? Thanks in advance.