Finding the One Is Not Easy, But It’s Not Impossible

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Finding the one for me put me through some difficult situations and difficult relationships. What I didn’t know is that the person I was truly going to be happy with was my friend. I never gave him a thought until after my eighth relationship, and even then when I told him that I loved him more than just as a friend, he turned me away, so I went on and went into a ninth relationship that only lasted a month. Three months after I told him that I loved him more than just as a friend, and two months after the ninth relationship that I went through, he asked me to be his girlfriend.

What I had wanted for so long I finally got, and I was completely shocked. If someone would have told me that he would change his mind and actually want to be with me, I would have said, “Yeah, right” because I know how stubborn he was. Needless to say, the second he asked me, I couldn’t say yes. I couldn’t say no either. Instead, I just stood there in a shocked state. “So, will you be my girl?” brought me back into reality. I quickly said yes. How could I pass up what I’ve wanted for so long? I couldn’t believe that he was telling me that he wanted me too.

We may have only been together a little over four months now, but I’ve never felt this way about anyone, and I know that there’s definitely something different about this relationship. We’ve been so happy together, and he tells me everyday that he loves me. He calls me beautiful quite often. When I feel like the world is out to get me, he tells me that there’s nothing we can’t handle together. I’ve found the one I want to spend the rest of my life with, but I can definitely tell you that it wasn’t an easy journey. So I am here to tell you, finding the one is not easy, but it’s not impossible. Don’t give up!


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