While I’ve been in this relationship with Drew, some of you have asked whether or not we fight, and I “know” that this relationship is a Beloved relationship.
They are great questions and although my intuitive self has reaffirmed it through feeling an enormous sense of peace, I’d have to say that there are six elements that differentiate this relationship from all others. I’ll illustrate these elements in two key points.
Key #1—He channels messages from my higher self (consistently).
Have you ever had someone speak to you, and in that moment you know that they were channeling information for you?
While I’ve had other people do this for me, what is so beautiful about the Beloved relationship is that this person knows you most intimately. In the last few months, I have been expanding my practice and it’s forced me to stretch in all sorts of ways. Drew’s perspective in the middle of the night holds within it the knowledge of where I’ve been and with his intuitive insight sees the best of where I am going. His insight is consistently what I’d call “true or divine guidance.”
And by true guidance I mean information that is:
- Never judgmental
- Consistent without being a “should”
- Wise (from a mature voice)
- Comes from a place of abundance
- Encourages me to experience joy now rather than delay it for later.
Versus false guidance:
- Lots of shoulds
- Advises delayed happiness
Just this morning, after meditation, I felt drowsy and decided to go back to bed. When Drew came in and saw me lying there in the sunlight, I apologized (feeling like I ought to be up and about) and he said, “You never need to apologize if your body needs more rest.” At which point he enveloped me in his arms for a yummy kiss. Without fail, Drew will notice immediately if I’ve taken the time to take care of myself (meditation and yoga) and he’ll remark at my glow and encourage more of the same.
Key # 2—Our passion hasn’t waned.
I could write a whole book on sex—its ability to heal and also drain energy and why. Our passion has continually energized me rather than depleted me. And our ability to stay present with each other amazes me. I haven’t gotten bored.
Part of this has to do with my own ability to be present and Drew’s as well. And it doesn’t hurt that he’s a fabulous story teller and I often look forward to the stories that he’ll dream up when we get in bed.
But most importantly I’ve noticed that, let’s say we’re watching a movie—we can get tired and start to doze off, but the minute we embrace romantically, we have boundless energy and often play for hours upon hours … you get the picture.
All the elements that remind me of whether or not I’m connected to Source are reflected in this relationship:
- Boundless Energy
- Unconditional Love
- Divine Guidance
And again, I’ve seen over and over in myself and others that as long as you shine forth this truth about your innermost/higher self, it is inevitable (if you’re wanting a Beloved relationship) that you will have it!