Ladies, I need your help! My husband and I have been together for ten years and have two wonderful kids. In the beginning, our sex life was awesome! But since our second baby everything has gone downhill. Just recently, he had an affair; apparently he was going to this woman for oral sex. He wants me to perform oral sex on him all the time. Eventually, he did end up having sex with her. Part of me feels it’s my fault because I don’t perform this on him and don’t think that should be a big problem in a marriage if you’re having sex on a regular basis. So ladies, help me out. Do I need to suck it up and please my man with oral, or just say the heck with it and walk away and find a man who really cares and loves me no matter if oral is done on him or not? Please help!