I’m a twenty year old student in India, and my girlfriend lives thousands of miles away. It’s really hard this long distance thing. I’ve had many crushes in school before but this is not a crush. She was in my school, but I never got to know her. We started talking on phone after we joined different colleges. We are really serious and really committed. It’s been almost two years now we’ve been together. I’ve only gone to meet her three times, each for a day or two. So you can safely say we’ve only spent about twenty to thirties hours together. Her parents came to know of us a year back and they strictly disapprove, she was almost grounded for long. But still we continue.
The only trouble is we fight a lot. So much so that we talk less than we fight. At the end of the day we make up and realize how much we really love each other. Not many people know about us. It’s always nice to tell someone. I do have plans to propose when I’m old enough and earning. She is also expecting me to propose. We talk about life after marriage a lot and I see a bright future for us. There are contrasts in our personalities but I guess opposites attract. Just wanted a feedback to know if we were heading somewhere. It’s not that I do not believe in us but it’s definitely worth listening to advice.