I feel as though a real man for one is going to be that of God. When a man walketh with God, his point of view is different. He will be the man that is in search of completion. With that being said, he is going to be the man that picks you up when you fall. He won’t always tell you what you want to hear, but what you need to know because he values your heart to much to deceive you. Again, “completion,” a real man would be content with his woman enough to value her. You know to know her worth. The other girls won’t do because they have no substance. When he is with you he is with you. Point blank, period. Also, he has to be real enough to share his feelings, his views, thoughts, and so forth. Some may think by doing so he is weak, but in my eyes that makes him strong.
A real man can tell you how he feels and can share his emotions because he feels as though you should not be left in the dark about anything. A real man can right his wrong and know the true meaning of compromise. A “real man” is just that. Nothing fake about him. He doesn’t play games because he left that at recess but he knows that he doesn’t have to resort to those things. He is going to be honest with you up front because honesty is his aim to win you over and that is going to be his aim to keep you.
A real man doesn’t cheat. He doesn’t feel the need to. If there was ever that temptation then he wouldn’t be with you, anyway. Plus he knows that you are always going to be there and he wouldn’t mess up a good thing for nothing. That fake love is always lurking around the corner, but the real love, that person that is going to be true to you … when you find it hold on to it with every ounce of your being because you may never find it again. A real man knows that.
A real man would value your opinion because he knows that you’re not just a pretty face, but how you view things is important to him. Important for him to know you better, to love you better. And I’ll digress by saying that a “real man” does exist and that I still believe in true love … I think God send us the jerks so that we can recognize a keeper, but too many women seem to think they all fit in one category. A real man can’t be in the same category as a jerk.
A real man stands above the rest. His word is true, his intentions are true, and his heart is true. His emotions reap your emotion. When you’re happy he’s happy. When you’re sad he’s sad. You see he wants to make you happy because the smile on your face is what he lives for. Besides he loves you too much to see you down. He will do all that he can to keep you happy. Because like I said, it makes him happy to see you happy.