So it happened, you’ve broken up with your partner and you realized that you want them back. Maybe they dumped you, or you dumped them; regardless, here are a few tips on how to get your ex back.
If you want to learn how to get your ex back, firstly, give them space. Don’t be a stalker and leave them thirty voicemails a day. You had a life before them remember? Give them time to drink and be alone, you’re not going to win them back by harassing them. The idea is to convince them that we both made a mistake and you should be together, not manipulate them into being with you. Balance is key.
Next let them know that you still care and that you want to be with them. If they broke up with you, let them know that you are still dedicated to them and are looking to get back together. You don’t need to reiterate your intention multiple times, this may scare them. Persistence is not always key.
Look at why you broke up. If someone cheated on you, figure out why. Was it only for sexual gratification? Maybe you need to work on your communication. If you don’t know why you broke up, get clarification from your partner. If you grew apart or no longer felt the chemistry, talk to your partner and discuss how you can work together to resolve this.
Emphasize your relationship strengths from the past and vow to work out the flaws, even if they are serious. This will help them remember the good times and be confident that you can get over the bad ones when you get back together.
These tips on how to get your ex back have been proven and hopefully they will work for you on helping you fix your relationship and win your ex back!