We are all familiar with this dynamic. When there is someone in your life that does not believe in you, they do not support your dreams, or people you do not even know will try to bring you down. It’s their job to abominate, express a strong feeling of disgust and hate towards something or someone that they are just plain jealous of!
Jealously is a waste of energy, energy that should be applied towards support and giving love to the people you love in your life. But I guess these people are placed in our lives for a reason, they are what I like to call “Road Blockers”. It’s up to you to find, another route around these “Road blockers” to get to your destination “Success.”
I have learned that one of the ways to get ahead in life is to learn how to deal with people! All people … Because wherever you go, trust me there will be someone that will give you a hard time. Co-workers, Public Places … I just smile, get what I need, and keep it moving. At the end of the day everybody is happy.
These days support is hard to find, friends and family are busy caught up in their own lives. So I highly suggest you find love in all the wrong places! What this means is, turn all your negatives in to positives. “Haters,” the people who doubted you, they should be your motivation! Not an influence but the drive behind all you do …
For me, it’s not about proving to the non-believers, it’s about believing in myself and respecting the struggle. This helps develop Thick Skin, and a Back Bone. With faith and knowing even when its rough and things aren’t going so good and the people around you are negative remember frustration breeds motivation!
Be successful and let the haters know you love them!
Love Your Beauty!