Janet’s voice dropped to a whisper as she asked this painful question.
“I am doing everything I can. I have my vision board. I read my affirmations every morning. If he isn’t here yet, it must mean I am doing something wrong, doesn’t it?”
Before I could answer, she melted into tears, “I guess I am afraid there really isn’t anyone out there for me. How can I know for sure? If I knew he wasn’t coming, then I could move on in peace. It is the not knowing that is just killing me.”
The phone went silent for a moment as she composed herself.
“I just can’t give up,” she sighed. “Something in me won’t let go of the dream.”
From that point, we went on to clear a powerful past break up with EFT and released some of the very real heartbreak from nearly twenty years ago.
So, is it your fault that the LOA is not delivering as you expect? After all, according to the Law of Attraction, you are living out what you are vibrating so if you are failing in your Soul Mate Search, aren’t you ultimately responsible?
Yes and no. Your Dreams and Aspirations are powerful tools guiding you to truly enjoy your life. If your man or woman hasn’t shown up for you, it is almost always a matter of Timing. The very fact that you are reading this post is evidence that you are attracting the tools you need to make your dreams a reality.
Your past relationships have been filled with misperceptions and misunderstandings and you have to deal with that. There are no short cuts. This part IS your responsibility. Be sincere when you look inside at your heart. Are you really ready to open your heart again?
If you are not so sure, then you can take inspired action to clear away the emotional residue that is cluttering your mind. You can prepare your heart to love again and when you make THAT your primary goal, Law of Attraction will pour resources and support to manifest your strong and healed heart!
LOA is always strongest when you pick an Inner Goal rather than an Outer Goal. What I recommended to Janet was that she change her intention from: “I want to attract a Soul Mate.” to “I want to prepare my heart to BE a fantastic Soul Mate.”
I could almost feel her smile through the phone. “I feel so relieved!” She said. “I can DO that!”