Your anger comes from the wild and violent side of your brain, which remains in a primitive condition. It is not a logical reaction, even when you can justify it. It is a violent, animal reaction that belongs to the wild realm, which transforms you into a monster, even if you believe that you are right, and anyone in your place would feel the same way, and show exactly the same behavior.
There are people who can control their anger, mainly because they don’t become as angry as you do, or they don’t become angry at all when they face the same situations you do, because they follow a different philosophy of life, and they have learned how to tame their wild nature.
A wild animal is always angry and violent, and the human being is a very wild animal, since the biggest part of his brain belongs to his primitive conscience. However, there is a tiny part in his brain that has passed through a process of consciousness. This tiny human part can transform him into a god, because when his entire brain will attain the same level of consciousness, he will be as wise as the unconscious mind that produces our dreams in order to protect us from all dangers, especially from the anti-conscience, our wild conscience.
The human being is not only an animal, but a superior creature who can understand that he is alive, and transform his personality, attaining perfection. He has to transform his violent animal behavior into a peaceful and wise human behavior, if he wants to prevent violence and live happily, instead of exploding with anger, and suffering.
Therefore, remember always that when you are angry and you start shouting, you are showing to the world that you are being dominated by your wild nature, and that your anger can lead you to violence. This means that you are far from showing the behavior of a sensible human being, who can understand all human problems, and forgive others, even when they make serious mistakes.
It doesn’t matter if you are right for feeling irritated, because you were betrayed. You are never right when you act like an animal, instead of being a sensitive human being. You are probably revolted with this truth, thinking that it’s very difficult to control your anger when you see yourself in sad situations or in an unfair position, due to other people’s mistakes, or due to their wickedness.
Don’t worry, because you can be helped by the wise unconscious mind that produces your dreams, and learn how to transform your wild behavior into human behavior. This way, you’ll stop feeling angry when someone upsets you, and you’ll learn how to prevent being a victim of other people’s negligence or wickedness.
The wise unconscious mind will transform you into a very wise person, who never becomes angry for any reason, but always shows understanding and compassion, and also into a person who lives surrounded by people who respect you. You’ll learn how to transform your life, besides transforming your personality, which means that you’ll have only positive relationships, with people who won’t behave like snakes, but who will love and admire you.