So, I meet this guy about two months ago at a music festival in Illinois, of all places.
Anyway, we totally hit it off and spent the whole weekend together. It was so awesome to meet someone that I was attracted to and hit it off with right away, so it was devastating leaving him at the end and we promised that we would see each other again soon.
I live in Asheville, NC and he lives in Denver, CO. So we live over a 1,000 miles from each other. I am twenty-five and he is twenty-eight. We are both Capricorns and have so much in common. There are so many reasons why I am so eager to hold on to this and I see great potential.
This past weekend was the 4th of July holiday, so I flew out and stayed with him for five days. It was one of the best weekends of my life. It was like the two of us were never apart. There was nothing but laughter, love, and complete openness. The sex was also different, for me at least, because it actually felt like we were sharing “love.” There were true emotions with it. I need help figuring out what to do …
He is a workaholic, just bought a house, and is a very busy person. I am working three jobs and have one year left of school. The timing is so wrong. It is going to be hard to find the time and money to see each other often. If it works out then I am able and willing to move there, but that’s a year from now and I just don’t know if it is possible to make this long distance thing work.
I am going to talk to him about how he feels and see if he is willing to put forth the effort. Communicate is a huge commitment and the willingness to want to really get to know the other person has to be there. I am fine if he just wants to be friends, but I don’t know what he wants. I can understand if he has any hesitations too. Long distance relationships take a lot of work, but I am willing to work with him and get to know him through the means of technology and snail mail, if he is too. I am just so lost and confused about all of this. Can anyone give me any advice?