As you can see, the unconscious guidance in dreams is an invitation for a transformation. The unconscious mind shows to the dreamer that he is repeating his ancestors’ mistakes.
He is a slave of his absurd reactions. He doesn’t know how to find the right woman for him. He keeps getting involved with women who want to take advantage of him. This is why he had many traumatic experiences.
However, he is still young. There is an ideal woman for him. There is hope. He has to get rid of the negative components of his personality in order to finally find the ideal woman for him, and have a perfect relationship. His anima is knocking the door (inviting him), and waiting for him.
From this example you can understand the psychotherapeutical value of the dream messages. The unconscious guidance shows to all dreamers that they have to transform their personalities if they want to find peace and happiness in life. This is the same as to say that God shows to all sinners that they must learn how to be good, kind, sensitive, sincere, generous, and humble if they want to live peacefully and happily.
The dreamer must stop being selfish, insecure, and indifferent. He must acquire complete consciousness and become a wise human being. (He has to get out of his grandparents’ house instead of feeling safe there).
In a few words, the dreamer must abandon his primitive behavior.
By following dream therapy, he will surely get rid of his negative tendencies and evolve. Therefore, he will learn how to be a good partner for his wife.
He must be transformed before finally meeting the ideal woman for his personality type. This is how the unconscious psychotherapy works.
The unconscious mind prepares all dreamers for meeting the right person for them, so that they may be able to have a perfect relationship after meeting the ideal person.
Now, let me show you the poetic and religious meaning of the unconscious words. The unconscious mind was telling to the dreamer that:
“Only when you’ll stop acting like your absurd tendencies impose on you, will you surely find salvation.
Don’t let the worst components of your personality control your behavior and destroy your life. You must fight against your absurd tendencies.
If you never open the door for your heart, how can you find happiness in life?
Don’t be afraid to find your freedom.”
The poetic and religious meaning of these words is visible especially when we consider the fact that the unconscious mind is a very serious doctor who is trying to transform indifferent monsters into sensitive human beings. This is why the generous unconscious mind gives us (monsters) many explanations in dreams.
The revolted dreamer couldn’t understand that he was responsible for his own suffering. Now he understood that he must change his behavior if he wants to ever have a positive love relationship. He must also learn how to find the right woman for him, instead of having dangerous relationships with women that will ruin his life. (He must stop being controlled by the negative part of his personality that was chasing him in the street, and he must get out of his grandparents’ house).
The dreamer stopped feeling like a victim. He is now building his self-confidence, and beginning a new life. Everything depends on his transformation.