This is the second part of my two-part interview with Dr. Michael J. Norman, author of Unbridled Grace.
CCM: Okay, let’s talk specifically about your book. The cover photo is beautiful. Where was it taken?
MN: This is on top of a peak in the Dolomites mountain range in the Alto Adige region of Italy (the northern-most region of Italy in the European eastern Alps).
CCM: Where did your title, Unbridled Grace, come from?
MN: I wanted to hopefully convey the reality of complete, unrestrained grace that God wants to share with all of us. As I said in the book, a highly contagious ripple-effect of God’s grace can be unleashed through our life choices that can rapidly spread through our lives, our families, our churches, our cities and our world. I have found that God works through us in this way but our cooperation is necessary.
CCM: How long did it take to write this book?
MN: On again, off again for about 10 years. There were several times I boxed everything up and packed it away in a closet but I kept “rediscovering” it. For me, it was the story that wouldn’t go away, even though I tried.
CCM: The theme of your book is the power of choice. Explain the importance you place on this.
MN: It’s everything. It’s God’s greatest gift to us and it can unleash the most powerful force on the planet, His grace. I wrote about the fact that all of God’s new doorways for our lives can be bigger than the previous ones, if we use our power of choice for Him. Our lives simply keep expanding if we allow them to. Now the opposite is also true. When we mis-use His gift, our power of choice can lead to a “shrinking” of our lives until we begin to choose differently.
CCM: And this “shrinking” of our lives is what you called a hell of our own creation?
MN: Yes, and I knew it well.
CCM: Have you always placed such importance on the power of choice?
MN: Absolutely not, as the early part of the book describes. Although, looking back over the years, my favorite movies have always been the ones which show alternate versions of life possibilities for the character if they had chosen differently. My favorite is still “It’s a Wonderful Life”. We all have an infinite number of life possibilities available to us depending on the choices we make.
CCM: You include inspiring but challenging meditations at the end of each chapter for readers. Where did these come from?
MN: I don’t know how else to answer that except, they were lessons that came out of the pain. I wish I could have just learned them from a book instead! The themes of the meditations mirror their respective chapters and the events that unfolded within them. They’re kind of like “classroom notes” over several years.
CCM: Are you worried they are a little too challenging for the average Christian?
MN: They are absolutely challenging. I read them often to help push myself. I know they won’t be for everybody. I have painfully learned that Christ challenges all of us to become more than who we are today. For me, this was difficult then, just as it remains difficult today.
CCM: Don’t you worry about the “hypocritical, holier-than-thou” label?
MN: I’m used to it as a father of a teenager!
CCM: No, seriously.
MN: Yes, there is always that possibility but it is far riskier to not write this book. This is God’s victory that is told, not mine. He permits all of us to pass through trials and difficult life experiences for a reason and it remains up to us to give a testimony to His power. If we don’t, who will? Everybody loves a good story. Why not share true stories that tell of His victories? I would love to see the book market flooded with them.
CCM: In your book, you share an incredible Marian experience that you and Laura received. How did this impact the eventual outcome of your ordeal?
MN: I don’t think there would be a story without this event. It changed Laura and I completely. I write about how we were given a momentary glimpse beyond the veil and I am so thankfully humble to have received this awesome blessing and gift. I mean, we were able to make the courageous and impossible choice of risking a loss of family, freedom, friends, career, finances, home, everything. It helped us stand up for God and accomplish His will.
CCM: What about those who do not believe in Marian experiences or do not believe you?
MN: I am sure there will be plenty. But Christ also tells us ‘by their fruits you shall know them.’ This is what I prefer to use as my “barometer”. I hope they would as well.
CCM: Although you are currently studying for a degree in Theology, you have no other formal theological training or credentials. Do you think this hinders the chances for your book being successful?
MN: First of all, I consider my book a success if only my children and grandchildren would be able to read about God’s victory and the choices I made. That’s why I wrote it.
CCM: Fair enough. What about your lack of theological training and credentials?
MN: As a hindrance to success? I think a theology “textbook” is difficult for most people to understand and apply to real-life experience. This is a true story that could occur to any of us and illustrates how theology can become practical and lived out in real-life.
CCM: Since your ordeal, what has been your biggest surprise?
MN: When I speak to groups and share this story, I have met so many people who have gone through similar experiences within our legal system.
CCM: What were some of the biggest challenges in the writing of Unbridled Grace?
MN: One of the biggest was overcoming the conflicting advice from the publishing world. From the beginning, they told me to choose “mission or market” but not both because that is not possible. It was strongly suggested that I bring this story to market as a strictly secular account with all the “winning” elements: an incredible true story, individual accomplishment and triumph over adversity. I just couldn’t do it. Without Christ and what truly helped me, this story could no longer be considered true. In the end, I would have cheated both, the secular market as well as the Christian market.
CCM: Where do you go from here?
MN: My prayer is that Unbridled Grace helps many people and it could open the door to allow me to continue writing.
CCM: So, there may be a future book?