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12 Things You DON'T Need to Do by 25 (Or 30)

In a world where we are constantly connected, it's easy to feel that we need to attack our life's to-do list with fervor. From getting a degree to running a marathon—hey, all your friends are posting these successes on Facebook, so you better get down to business!—if you haven't done it by 30, you better get moving! Or, maybe, just maybe, you don't need to follow someone else's life plan. 30 is, after all, the new 20. And you've got plenty of time to decide what path is right for you.
No Age Limits
Travel to far-off lands
Come up with the next big idea
Live on your own
Get a degree
Run a marathon
Settle on a Career
Fall in love
Have the Best Sex of Your Life—Constantly
Get Married
Wake Up Every Sunday Morning not Hungover and Ready to Tackle Farmers' Markets.
Be Ready for the Responsibility of a Child
Have a Threesome or be Otherwise Sexually Adventurous Because, Well, You’re Young and This is the Time to do It

Have the Best Sex of Your Life—Constantly

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Travel to far-off lands

Sometimes my friends and I say things like “this might be our last chance” or “this is the time to do it” whenever we discuss leaving our current cities for even a couple weeks. It’s as if we think we’re all going to inherit Lindsay Lohan’s ankle bracelet on our 30th birthday. If you really want to go, you’ll make it happen one day. Sure, it might be harder than taking one backpack and a few pairs of underwear with you as you hike the Alps, but adventure doesn’t have to mean forgoing clean underwear anyway.

Come up with the next big idea

Just because some of the recent great innovators still have their umbilical cords intact doesn’t mean innovation stops at a certain age. It’s okay to just be a college student or just be an employee supporting someone else’s great idea. There’s still time to develop “the Facebook of cancer research” or “the Facebook of food trucks” or, more importantly, a new phrase to define success.

Live on your own

Perhaps you’ve noticed that the market for renting isn’t the best these days. Plus, doesn't New Girl look like fun?!

Get a degree

There's always at least one old dude in a college lecture hall, and he no doubt pays more attention and has way cooler stories than the frat boy sitting next to him. That could be you one day!

Run a marathon

I will never understand anyone who chooses to run 26-plus miles without stopping but then again, I’m someone who tried to escape from my boot camp class when I learned we were running two timed miles. So for one thing, running is overrated. For another, it isn’t outlawed at a particular age. Just ask Fauja Singh (pictured), the world’s oldest marathoner who just took part in the Hong Kong Marathon (just five weeks before he turned 102!). photo credit: Guardian.co.uk

Settle on a Career

Futurists predict that the average millennial will change careers as many as 10 times throughout their life. So, try out different jobs—don't settle for one that might not be the right fit. 

Fall in love

Have you been around the guys in their early 20s recently? For that matter, have you hung out with girls in their early 20s? It’s a miracle anyone finds true love in this day and age—let alone the confused, young people in the world today. So don't sweat it if you haven't met 'the one.' It's okay to wait until we all have a few more things figured out before opening up your heart.

Have the Best Sex of Your Life—Constantly

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Get Married

It’s 2012, people. Time to retire the idea of a spinster, crazy cat lady for good.

Wake Up Every Sunday Morning not Hungover and Ready to Tackle Farmers' Markets.

Why do we think we’re going to graduate from wanting to celebrate and indulge with our friends?

Be Ready for the Responsibility of a Child

I could be wrong, but is anyone truly ready for kids at any age? Everyone I know who has a child says that no amount of preparation truly prepares you, so why sweat it now? Baby spitup, sleepless nights, and teeting? No thanks—for now, I'll stick to nights out with the girls, date nights that take place at the movie theater, and sleeping in until Noon.

Have a Threesome or be Otherwise Sexually Adventurous Because, Well, You’re Young and This is the Time to do It

Maybe it’s just not for you, ever. Or maybe it will be for you when you’re 65. The point is, like travel, there’s no age limit on adventure.

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