Let me just say I know it’s hard out here, and its really hard to make time for yourself (me time). So my motto is, “treat yourself.”
Try to look your best even when it’s a day out at the grocery store, mall, or running errands. I’m not saying put on make-up and stilettos and go out, I’m saying be clean, be well put together, and presentable. Dress for yourself, not for him! When you dress for him it’s a chore, but for yourself it’s a necessity!
At least once a month give yourself a make-over, a manicure and pedicure, go to the salon, buy lingerie and wear it on a regular day, not because you’re expecting a date or your man. As women we need to be able to feel confident in our skin, that means if you are single cook a good meal for yourself as if you would for a man, have date night with yourself. Relax in a nice hot bath with a glass of wine! That’s my thing but you get the picture!
Basically, treat yourself—there’s no harm in that.
Remember, it’s a process, once you get the hang of it, you will feel more free!
Love Your Beauty!