The Goldslagger night became one of many as I desperately attempted to cling on to someone whom I valued like no other, but had no idea how to keep. It was a useless mission, and anytime I tried to... Read more >>

My African-American sister-friends have often joked that if I ever finish my nappy pride crusade in America, I’ll have plenty of work to do in Africa. Several of them have spent time on the... Read more >>

I recently agreed to date this wonderful guy that I like. His name is Charles. I don’t quite agree with his previous decisions, nor way of life but when he asked me out he specified to me that... Read more >>

I want to pay homage to the lovely young gay Asian men who grace the streets of San Francisco. These guys are usually the best looking people on the street! Their clothes fit! They are groomed to the... Read more >>

It’s an oft-repeated scene in a Hollywood romantic comedy: Gorgeous girl makes man totally tongue-tied. Now there’s science behind the phenomenon—not just screenwriting. According... Read more >>

When getting to know someone new, there are things we are willing to accept and others that will send us running in the other direction. The first home visit can be a deal-breaker for many of us,... Read more >>

Hey Guys! Does a receding hairline give you the pre-date jitters? Do those tufts of hair on your traps or a few extra pounds make you too shy to take off your t-shirt? The fact that women are... Read more >>

I have always found it fascinating how men view beauty. It is not always the same. Men have different concepts of beauty. For instance I have always considered Princess Diana a very attractive... Read more >>

The first time I saw Helen Slater was in the 1984 production of Supergirl, which also starred Faye Dunaway. I must say, although I liked the movie and found Helen a good actress and sort of... Read more >>

Contrary to what we women have been taught, men actually love it when we express our feelings. Because they are “thinking” creatures, our ability to be feminine and emotional is what... Read more >>