Raise your hand if you can accurately read the minds of your girlfriends. My guess is that, at least for a few, you actually can. Larry and I can read each other’s minds at times. When... Read more >>

I get asked this question constantly. Women who are dating want to know this—especially women who are divorced, over forty, and haven’t been dating for some time. They also want to... Read more >>

Do you know that you are special? That you count big time? That you deserve to think of yourself first when dating and developing a love relationship? This is such a difficult concept for... Read more >>

Good for you, girlfriend. You’ve made the connection. You made eye contact, smiled that friendly smile, and he asked you out. You’re sitting with him at that coffee shop or restaurant.... Read more >>

When you’re dating, do you want to know as much as possible about a man, as quickly as possible? Especially for those of us “of a certain age,” life is too damn short to be... Read more >>

“What’s the biggest challenge women face when dating?” This is the question I am asked most often as a dating and relationship coach for women over forty. And the interesting thing... Read more >>

Last week, a smart, thoughtful woman left a comment on my post about Dating the Somewhat Disappearing Man. These are the guys I call “pingers” because they ping you (or contact you) just... Read more >>

Why is it that when we date—even at forty, fifty, or sixty—we can become an alien woman from planet WTF? If you’re anything like I was, it’s sometimes difficult to... Read more >>

Rejection sucks. There’s no other way to say it. When he doesn’t show interest, doesn’t show up, or breaks it off after a relationship develops; it’s ugly and icky. No doubt... Read more >>

I’ve been coaching this glorious woman “Pam.” We’re working together to comfortably guide her back into the dating world. Our goal is for her to meet a man she enjoys, trusts,... Read more >>