When you’re the one keeping the home fires burning, whether you’re a woman in the juggling act of work and children, a stay-home daddy/homemaker like my husband is, or a caregiver for your... Read more >>

When my father died on July 12, 2005 I felt a “voice” telling me to stay and help my mother. I’ve always tried to follow that voice, even if I don’t understand it when I hear... Read more >>

Life changes and I’ve learned that with every highway, there are two directions. Sometimes we choose the road we take and at other times, it chooses us. I happen to believe that within tragedy,... Read more >>

In ancient times, the messenger bringing bad tidings to the king would be executed. After all, nobody likes to hear negative news. So, it isn’t surprising that caregivers are often viewed like... Read more >>

My mother had back surgery a few days ago and I’m at home taking care of her. The entire episode has brought flashbacks to when my grandmother had her stroke twenty years ago and my mother cared... Read more >>

About four years ago, my fifty-one year old sister, Kathy, was diagnosed with ovarian cancer. She had no signs or symptoms and as so often the case, the “cancer that whispers” had... Read more >>

Andy Warhol coined and played with the meaning of this phrase, “fifteen minutes of fame.” My meaning is this, for caregivers of those with Alzheimer’s: start small, and evolve... Read more >>

Lord, help me to face this day with a positive attitude. If the other family members refuse to show up today, Lord, give me the wisdom to make the best chose for my loved one. Help me to not to... Read more >>

Earlier this year, my father was diagnosed with Lewy Body Dementia. As the disease progresses, my mother struggles more and more to care for him. Dad, who used to be fiercely independent, now relies... Read more >>

How can I begin to explain the view from my kitchen window? I take in the stunning Minnesota sunsets and listen to the peaceful sound of pheasants crowing. I have yelled at my kids. I’ve opened... Read more >>