In the world of dating there are no regulations that help us single folk make sure we are getting it right, and the absence of some sort of written doctrine results in a myriad of problems, some of... Read more >>

As a dating expert who has given dating advice to tens of thousands of people since early 2000, there are twenty basic do’s and don’t rules in the world of dating to help you increase your... Read more >>

I used to have strict rules about who I dated; I actually had a list. A man had to meet ninety-nine criteria: countless attributes, physical characteristics, and of course, none of my deal-breakers.... Read more >>

First dates: magical moments when you realize you have a connection with someone, or the stuff nightmares are made of. The fine art of first dates can be the beginning of a beautiful relationship or... Read more >>

Have you ever been on a first date and wished you had a crystal ball to see into the future? Would there be a second date? A third? Would he like your dog?  Would your parents like him? Could a... Read more >>

This year will be remembered for the emergence of a new breed of woman in the dating world: the Puma. Although sizzling, single, thirty-something pumas have always been around, it’s time to... Read more >>

Dear 4-Way, I have a close girlfriend who is a big believer in the book The Rules. I’ve never bought into them, but there’s a new guy in my life right now and I really like him; so far,... Read more >>

The other day I was thinking about what went wrong (again, sigh) in my last round of Dating Games. And it got me thinking about the lessons I’ve learned in my search for a partner. Here’s... Read more >>

When it comes to finding a potential soul mate, getting the date is only half the battle. These days, small talk isn’t enough to determine if someone is into you, but you can rely on more... Read more >>

I don’t understand the “be unavailable” dating advice from the abundance of books that prey on relationship-seeking single women. Of course, nobody is going to answer the ad for an... Read more >>