Pole dancing is a controversial sport. It’s hard to do; you have to have excellent core and upper body strength, and you have to be fairly coordinated. But it’s also undeniably... Read more >>

One of the biggest complaints I get from women (and men) in long term relationships is that the sex has become either stale or non-existent. There are lots of reasons for this: busy lives,... Read more >>

So many times couples focus on the “Big O” when they talk or think about their sexual encounters. That’s typical for men, who tend to be goal oriented. It’s also... Read more >>

Last summer a team of scientists published a paper in the Canadian Journal of Human Sexuality. The team had interviewed both individuals having great sex and sex therapists to determine the... Read more >>

I co-hosted a radio show recently with special guest Dr. Adam Sheck, an Imago Relationship Therapist. He and I became friends via Facebook and realized we think alike and often write about the... Read more >>

The mind is the largest sex organ in the human body, which is what makes the body fickle when it comes to eroticism. It’s tricky to maintain eroticism and intimacy in long-term relationships,... Read more >>

“Foreplay reflects the politics of intimacy and power in your relationship … (it) is where boundaries of intimacy and eroticism are negotiated.”—Passionate Marriage In long... Read more >>