I was married. I had an affair. I left my husband for my lover. Don’t judge me. You don’t know the why. I remember it all too well. My new husband had hit me before we were married. It... Read more >>

Well ... it’s been three  months since I reclaimed my life. I must say it’s been the happiest three months of my life. Yes, he finally left. It only took him a month. A month of him... Read more >>

Dear Sergeant Husband, I need to get this out, and I couldn’t in good conscience write you this letter and put it in your bag before you left. I feel a little whiny and self serving, and... Read more >>

I just discovered there really is something worse than hearing the words, “You’ve got cancer.” It’s listening as someone one dearly loves tells say he has cancer. Two years... Read more >>

I see it over and over. Great woman, smart, beautiful, successful, madly in love with Mr. Could Not Be More Wrong. What in the world is this all about? Let’s call her Amanda. She’s a... Read more >>

We’ve been together almost seven years now—seven years that has contained a lot of pain, frustration, many good times and some not-so-good. It all comes down to communication. He is a... Read more >>

My husband Alex is on his way home after a month long business trip to Germany. The last few days of his trip have been really bad because he is sick. It’s bad to be sick and so far from home.... Read more >>

The MIB lived on Carol’s white microfiber couch from 6 p.m. until midnight every evening. The couch was slipcovered in a mocha-shaded fabric to absorb his brown life and protect the furniture... Read more >>

Ricky and I will celebrate our eighth wedding anniversary next week. For the most part, we have a good relationship. Sure we have our little tiffs, but we rarely fight-fight. But like a lot of... Read more >>

How does one recover a marriage gone south? How do you forgive someone who is so far removed from where you are and what you want that you feel as if you are speaking French and and he is speaking... Read more >>