One of the biggest complaints I get from women (and men) in long term relationships is that the sex has become either stale or non-existent. There are lots of reasons for this: busy lives,... Read more >>

So, that’s it. You’ve decided to move in together. You’re excited, in love, and ready to go for it. People are warning you that it’s a big deal, but you are different and so is... Read more >>

Dear Sugar, I have been with my boyfriend for two and a half years. We now live together and both work full-time jobs, do well financially, love to travel together, plan the future (marriage, home,... Read more >>

A funny thing happens when you’ve been with the same person for a really long time. Even if you still like them a lot, you may find that you’re just not that into having sex with them... Read more >>

There are six common marriage myths I’ve encountered. These myths are true for the vast majority of all romantic relationships, whether married or cohabitating, gay or straight, young or... Read more >>

The mind is the largest sex organ in the human body, which is what makes the body fickle when it comes to eroticism. It’s tricky to maintain eroticism and intimacy in long-term relationships,... Read more >>

This is a poem I wrote when a ex boyfriend and I broke up … together eleven months to the day. Two hearts, beating at different times like a drum and guitar, making a song. A song of love... Read more >>

When experiencing difficulties in life it tends to reason that one can handle these difficulties in many ways. For example, a cut on the finger requires a bandage of some sort, a headache requires a... Read more >>

Someone asked me recently how I manage to still have great sex with my partner; after all, we’ve been together for twenty-four years. She thought there was something wrong with her relationship... Read more >>

I have a confession to make. For four years, I wanted my husband to be dead. It started off innocently enough. I had a premonition that he was going to be in an accident, and I told him about it.... Read more >>