I went shopping for bathing suits today. I bought two. Small bottom, medium top. One is a flaming red bikini and the other grey and silver. I see a man browsing in the women’s area looking... Read more >>

Dear 4-Way, My last relationship ended almost three years ago; that was also the last time I had sex. I don’t know how else to say what I’m feeling other than to tell you I’m... Read more >>

About a year ago I realized it was time to make a commitment. If you had a checklist for where I was in my life, it would look pretty good: late thirties, living in Manhattan, freelancer at a popular… Read more >>

Dear Sugar, My boyfriend and I have been together for five years in October. He is thirty-one and I am twenty-three. We have two children together, a three-year-old and a nine-month-old. Since I... Read more >>

I am twenty-seven years old and decided at a young age that I would save myself for my husband. In this I  became very particular about who I would date and what he had to be like. I waited all... Read more >>

You’ve heard of Sex and the City ... I have a new spin on it. Wait till you hear what I have to report about Not Dating in LA. I am in the dating Mecca of the world. The melting pot of all... Read more >>