Attention, women: Do you occasionally have a low sex drive? Do you ever have trouble getting or staying aroused during sex? Do you ever have trouble experiencing orgasm? If you answered yes to even... Read more >>

Dear 4-Way, I think my boyfriend is faking his orgasms. There’s rarely any physical evidence after we have sex that he actually had one (i.e., nothing in the condom), but when I ask if he... Read more >>

I just finished reading Passionate Marriage by David Schnarch, Ph.D. A brilliant book, full of so many insights I could probably write about it for months. The essence of his work is about... Read more >>

My partner is impotent. The medication he is on makes his penis small and tucked away, as if he is constantly cold. With the nicest attention, it will peak its head out before limply pulling back.... Read more >>

I was twenty-eight years old the first time I had pleasurable intercourse. Actually, I was twenty-eight years old the first time I didn’t experience extraordinary pain from intercourse. It took... Read more >>

My partner and I are embarking on another round to therapy to see if our marriage is salvageable or if it has run its natural course and it’s time for it to end gracefully. While my job is... Read more >>