Rejection can be a very good thing. Until you find the man who brings you the love and joy you deserve, you should thank the men who reject you. These men are doing you a favor. I think they... Read more >>

For a long time I’ve been talking about how important it is to understand men, and then to let them be who they are. They are not simply unwilling to change for us; in many ways they are... Read more >>

“Intuition is truly a feminine quality, but women should not mistake rash conclusions for this gift.” Minna Antrim The other day I was listening to my friend tell me about her twenty-five... Read more >>

Raise your hand if you can accurately read the minds of your girlfriends. My guess is that, at least for a few, you actually can. Larry and I can read each other’s minds at times. When... Read more >>

Last week, a smart, thoughtful woman left a comment on my post about Dating the Somewhat Disappearing Man. These are the guys I call “pingers” because they ping you (or contact you) just... Read more >>

I’ve been coaching this glorious woman “Pam.” We’re working together to comfortably guide her back into the dating world. Our goal is for her to meet a man she enjoys, trusts,... Read more >>

This week I got an email from a friend, Bethany. Bethany is a seriously impressive woman. She is a bright and successful entrepreneur, she’s beautiful, sincere, generous, and has ginormous... Read more >>

If you’re a woman who tends to over think and over analyze (and let’s face it … what woman doesn’t?) I want to advise you when it’s appropriate to do so about men:... Read more >>

Looking for a life partner but keep picking players, paupers, or just plain zeros? Finding a partner is like finding a good job: you only need one, but making a bad choice wastes your time and sticks... Read more >>

I get asked this question constantly. Women who are dating want to know this—especially women who are divorced, over forty, and haven’t been dating for some time. They also want to... Read more >>