Dear 4-Way, I’m thirty-four years old, and over the past two years, I’ve dated about six men. Because I’ve managed to stay friendly with each of them, I know what’s going on... Read more >>

I have been with my husband for five years, married for three years. My husband being forty, he’s slightly become the one to five minute man. We’ve tried everything to get him to last... Read more >>

It’s a Saturday night in rural Alaska and I just had a lengthy telephone conversation with one of my “over fifty” female friends who, like me, lives and works in a small,... Read more >>

I, as a lady in my early twenties, find something about older men very attractive. Maybe it’s because I find them wise, mature, interesting, and their sense of humor over the top, while they in... Read more >>

I don’t know the origins of this joke, or who first told it, but a friend sent it to me via email and I couldn’t resist sharing it. My Dear Wife, You will surely understand that I have... Read more >>

I thought having LDR, or May-December relationship, was tough enough; not until I got into not one, but both. Dealing with LDR People say that LDRs are difficult, not to mention the lack of... Read more >>

Well isn’t that the $64,000 question? The answer really is a personal thing. There is no right or wrong answer, as long as both parties are over the age of consent. If you were to research the... Read more >>

In the movie Elegy, an unlikely cast of characters play a very likely scenario: Ben Kingsley (a sophisticated, eloquent and charming university professor in his late fifties) and Penelope Cruz (his... Read more >>

A couple months ago I posted a letter to my younger self, to which many of you responded with letters to your own younger selves in the comment section. Turns out, we had a lot to say to our... Read more >>

Having recently come into a single life again, I am mystified. I was with one man, he was my only lover for fifteen years. I married young, had no chance or desire to be single when I met him, he had... Read more >>